What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If yes, what?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Why do people stop working towards achieving their dreams?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Why did the Soviet Jews hate the Soviet Union?
52~ What are your hobbies?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
If you win, what will you make them do?
The Ice Breaker Questions
FIFA Club World Cup predictions: Who are tournament favorites? - MLSsoccer.com
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
How old are you? Male or Female?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Which Bibles can one read and be confident they are reading the inerrant word of God?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
*** Random Questions ***
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Please share Did you stop?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Family Relation Age Play
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Any that are a turn off?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What is your favorite position? Why?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Nothing too Serious
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
*** Questions About Me ***
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
29- How superstitious are you?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Have you ever? Care to Share?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Would you read them together?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
39~ What are your love languages?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?